Big Brother Naija’s Bisola to attend United Nations General Assembly in USA (pic)

Bisola Aiyeola

For those who hold negative perception against the just concluded Big Brother Naija may have a rethink about the production. The first runner up to the winner, Bisola Aiyeola will be joining the world leaders at the 72nd United Nations General Assembly (UNGA), this week.

For those who are not conversant with UNGA, it is an assembly of world leaders converging in New York, USA. They deliberate on policy making and other issues facing the world at large. Our President, Muhammadu Buhari has already landed in USA on Monday. He will join other leaders as a discussant and will be delivering a paper.

 Bisola Aiyeola, will be busy sharing ideas with other experts on girl child education. Bisola who revealed she didn’t have the opportunity to go to the university, will be attending the 72nd session of the UN general assembly in New York to campaign for girls’ education.
The campaign aims to increase the access and quality of education for girls in Nigeria, with an emphasis on the northern part of Nigeria.
Aiyeola will be going as a ONE ambassador, a role she won while participating in the ‘Back to School’ presentation task, during the reality show. She  had called on Nigerian lawmakers to prioritize girls’ education.
Other ambassadors for the ONE campaign include Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, Bonang Matheba, and Waje.
Be reminded that she had a better  presentation at the Big Brother and she won outrightly. Seraph Makka, ONE Nigeria’s director, said she was excited Bisola emerged top in the task, amongst others.
She said; “We are proud to congratulate Bisola! Her presentation was very moving as she highlighted the status of girls education,”

“ONE looks forward to working with her to take our Campaign to the United Nations General Assembly in New York this September.
“During the UN General Assembly we will ask Nigerian and other African leaders to make education work for every girl by 2030, in line with Sustainable Development Goal 4.”
Wishing her happy deliberation!


Any lady I have sex with gets pimples on her face, I need help

There are new health challenges we hear on daily basis, and it is all over the world

This is another health challenge that baffles me, a young man shared this and I want you to hear his story and help.

The issue is I met my fiancé little over a year, when we met she had a very clean smooth face every woman will pray for but after few months her face had pimples and within a short time her face became so rough. She made different consultations, tried different face cleansers but to no avail.
There was a day she said something that baffles me and got me thinking. She said “she noticed her face started getting rough when we started making love.” We laugh over it but i reminisce over what she said and i could remember the same happened to my ex. My ex, a nurse had pimples throughout our time together.
And apparently, there is actually a lady I met before i met my current girlfriend, my fiancé, she is dark and lovely with a very smooth face, we had series of sex before she later travelled. After some month when i later saw her, her face was full of pimples.
I was not actually bothered before now simply because i just gained employment when i met her and i did pre-employment medical test before i got the job and all the results from the test showed i am ok. Perhaps the tests conducted did not show any medical challenge, it keeps me worried.

Could it be that the sexual intercourse I had with them contributed to this? If yes, whats the cure and how will my fiancé be treated. Has anyone experienced or suffer from this before? Fortunately I have a smooth face, I do not exhibit rough patches or pimples

Please I need help

Nigerian Policemen handcuffs a man to a vehicle to extort money

Deputy Police Force spokesperson

Some policemen attached to the Osun State Police Command have allegedly dehumanised a bus passenger at the Erinmo Ijesa end of the Iwaraja-Efon Alaaye Road, Osun State.
PUNCH Metro learnt that the policemen, who were in a Hilux van, mounted a checkpoint on the road and extorted money from commercial bus drivers.
However, a commercial bus driver, who was stopped, reportedly refused to pay them any money and was ordered to park by the roadside.

After the driver parked, one of the passengers was said to have alighted from the bus to urinate in a bush.
Our correspondent was told that the driver, on discovering that the attention of the policemen had shifted to another vehicle, quickly drove off, abandoning the man that went to urinate.
A monarch, the Owa Tapa of Itapa Ijesha, Dr Olapade Agoro, whose university’s site was around the area, said the abandoned passenger was picked up by the policemen and handcuffed to the patrol van.
He explained that the victim was handcuffed to the van for over two hours during which he soiled himself, as his cry for mercy fell on deaf ears.
He said, “The sad and highly embarrassing incident happened on Sunday (September 10, 2017).  The commercial bus the man was travelling in was stopped by the police for the usual ‘palm greasing’. The man came down from the vehicle to urinate.
“However, the deal between the driver and the policemen failed, prompting the police to ask the driver to park properly by the roadside while they attended to another vehicle.
“While they focussed on the other vehicle, the driver used the opportunity to speed off, leaving behind the passenger who went to urinate in the bush. When the passenger came back to discover that the bus had gone, he made enquiries about its whereabouts.
“Immediately the police officers discovered that he was on the bus that sped off, they pounced on him and thereafter handcuffed one of his hands to the back of the police van. The man was left handcuffed to the vehicle between the hours of 11am  and 1pm, during which he urinated on himself and wept profusely.”
He said he was angry at the maltreatment of the victim and he challenged the policemen.
Agoro said the cops subsequently released the passenger, who later came to his palace to appreciate the intervention.
“While still crying over his ordeal, he made me to realise that he had no money as the policemen had forcefully removed the last money on him from his pocket. I had to, on compassionate ground, give him N1,000 that enabled him to find his way back to his Aramoko Ekiti place of abode,” he added.
The traditional ruler said the inscription on the patrol van showed it belonged to policemen from the Osun Police Command, adding that fear prevented a resident from taking a clear snapshot of both the victim and the patrol number.
He, however, said he would recognise the men if he saw them again.
“I have a university site around the place, so there is a bump on the road. Because of the bump, vehicles are forced to slow down and the policemen use that as an opportunity to extort money from commercial drivers. Sometimes, they shoot indiscriminately. They have been doing this for a long time, but this incident was appalling.
“The situation of things in this country is terrible; but the policemen should not have tied the man down like an animal. The man urinated on himself and they didn’t care until I challenged them,” he added.
The spokesperson for the state police command, SP Odoro Folashade, said she could not react to the incident because the case had yet to be reported to any police station.
She said, “He should go and report to the nearest police station; then I will call them and find out what happened. What reaction do you want from me when the case has not been reported? He should go and establish his case, and then we will investigate.”

Senator Ademola Adeleke Dancing In A Church In USA (Pics, Video) 

Davido left & B Red

Senator Adeleke is a good dancer and does not hesitate to show his prowess whenever opportunity presents itself. He could give video vixen a run for her money. The Adeleke family knows how to entertain. David Adeleke known as Davido is a top entertainer in Nigeria. It runs in the family and the senator is not an exception. His son is B Red and a cousin to Davido. B Red is also an entertainer.
The Senator showed his dancing skills again at a church service in Atlanta, USA.

See the video below:

10 Tips Job-seekers Must Follow If They Want To Get A Meaningful Job 

By Patrick Okunima

1. Applying directly to job postings should represent no more than 20% of what you do. Getting referred to a job is 5-10X more effective than applying directly. If you’re going to apply, only apply to jobs when you’re a perfect fit for the skills and experience listed on the job description.
2. Leverage your understanding of the recruiter’s role. Many recruiters are gatekeepers who don’t know the job and will just box-check your skills and experiences. Others are extremely talented, who want to work with the best people to craft great career moves. You must avoid the former and seek out the latter.
3. Implement a 20/20/60 job-hunting plan. A job hunting plan requires a performance-based resume, an understanding of how recruiters find candidates, and applying through the backdoor. Networking is the key to the backdoor. It must represent 60% of what you need to do.
4. Focus on the job, not the money. It’s better to be underpaid than overpaid. Getting promoted or obtaining a big compensation increase will only occur after you’ve demonstrated great performance. You need to put yourself into these situations. Ignore anyone who says otherwise.
5. Present your strengths and weaknesses via short stories. No one believes general statements. You must validate each of your strengths with a specific example of how it was used in a real job situation. In addition, you need to demonstrate how you’ve turned your weaknesses into strengths. Never say you don’t have any weaknesses! It means you’ve stopped growing.
6. Divide and conquer by asking the universal question. Very early in the interview, or phone screen, you must ask the interviewer to describe the focus of the job, some of the big challenges, and how the new person’s performance will be measured. Pick at least two from this list. Then prove each is a core strength using the SAFW response below.
7. Practice the universal answer to any question. You need to be able to prove every strength with a specific example. Form your answer using the SAFW two-minute response: Say A Few Words – Statement – Amplify – few Examples – Wrap-up.
8. Weave the 10 Best Predictors of Job Success into Your SAFW Response. I just wrote a post for interviewers on how to evaluate your answers. Make sure you have an example proving you possess at least three or four of these strengths. Then during the interview ask if these traits are important for on-the-job success. Of course they will be. Then give your example. Note: this is a slam dunk!
9. Use the phone screen to minimize the impact of a weak first impression. Even if you make a good first impression, it’s important to ask the universal question (see above) early in the phone screen. Answering it correctly will increase the likelihood you’ll be invited to an onsite interview. This will help focus the actual interview on your past performance, instead of box-checking your skills and experience, or judging you on first impressions.
10. Uncover any concerns before the end of the interview. To determine where you stand, ask the interviewer about next steps. If they’re not specific, you probably won’t be called back. In this case, ask the interviewer what’s the biggest concern he/she has about your background. Then ask how the skill, trait or factor mentioned is used on the job. To overcome the concern, you’ll need to use the SAFW two-minute response to prove you can handle the requirement.
Getting a job for some is no fun. For all, it’s hard work. But working hard on the wrong things is a waste of time. So rather than complaining, take some advice from Jim Rohn: “Things will get better for you, when you get better.” Learning the ten techniques above is a great way to start.

Magun: Zimbabwean Man’s Testicle Explodes, Dies After Sex Session With Married Woman (pic)

Two lovers under the spell of Magun

Magun is a Yoruba word of south west of Nigeria. Magun means “do not climb”. Do not climb a married woman, simply means do not make love to a married woman . Magun is a concept adopted by Africans where a married man puts protective charm on his wife that is suspected of being adulterous. It is placed on the woman so that once a man, apart from her husband  sleeps with her, the man will  react in a strange manner and dies. In some cases, the two lovers could be locked together after the love session, and may involve the intervention of the spiritualists to undo it. From the picture above, the lovers were locked together and had to be taken to the spiritualists. The purpose is to disgrace them and exposed the illicit affair.

Many do not believe the authenticity of Magun, I urge doubters to read this:

A BULAWAYO woman claims her brother died because he slept with a fenced woman.
Patience Ndlovu told B-Metro that her brother Ndodana’s testicles swelled up like a balloon before they exploded and he died in the process.
“I used to hear that men fence their women but I did not believe that it was actually possible.
My brother died complaining that he was experiencing pain on his privates and he briefly highlighted that he might have slept with a fenced woman but he did not know who exactly as he had many sexual partners. When they exploded that was the end of him,” said Patience.
However, there is one man who is said to have been calling Ndodana telling him to stay away from his wife (name supplied) as there would be fatal consequences if he continued with the affair.
According to a neighbour to the late, Ndodana had been in a relationship with the named woman and some people in the area suggested that he had fathered her two children.
It is reported that despite all these warnings Ncube continued to enjoy the forbidden fruit that was not his.
In her defence the woman said neighbours wanted to destroy her marriage because they were jealous of her beautiful home.
“Who told you this? My children are now being dragged into this issue, it’s very sad that my neighbours want to see my children fatherless. I did not have an affair with him. He was a family friend,“ she said.

A fenced woman is a married woman that have been placed under the spell of Magun.

I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls, I need Your Advice

A cheating lover caught in the act

Technology has made life so simple. It has helped in many ways, and so also it has been revealing secrets. Since the advent of GSM in Nigeria (Global System for Mobile), in 2001, it makes life so simple for people to communicate. I shared a story of how a wife caught his cheating husband through social media with WhatsApp. A man has caught his wife making dirty calls to a young man when he exchanged memory cards. Hear him:

“It happened that I exchanged memory card with my wife. I saw 2 call recordings between my wife and a guy. the guy was toasting her and she was laughing and telling the guy on phone that she will go and think about his proposal and give him a feedback later.

I’m confused but I have not challenged her yet. am thinking of ending the marriage but my mum died last month and no one to take care of my son.
What can I do please?

Upcoming young music star, Lil Ameer is dead (video)

The Nigeria music scene has been thrown into a mourning mood when an upcoming, budding, bubbling and full of energy youngster died recently. He’s relatively unknown in Lagos, the city of entertainment. A rising star he was, he could have been a sensation if he was not cut short in the journeys of life.

The 14 years old Kano based young rapper whose real name is Ameer Hassan popularly known as Lil Ameer died after a car accident yesterday 14th of September. He was immediately rushed to the hospital after the fatal accident but later died. Ameer Hassan started his singing career at the age of 9 with his songs topping charts on radio stations in Kano. He was born 22 may 2003. Before his untimely death, he released many songs and recently the visuals to his song BOSS which is trending on most tv stations.
He has since buried at Tarauni  mosque Street, Kano state according to Islamic injunctions.
I pray that God will give the family the fortitude to bear this painful loss

May his gentle soul rest in peace, Amen

Watch the video of him in the studio

I Have Been Accused Just Like Dammy Krane Of Credit Card Fraud Before, 2face

Dammy Krane

Innocent Idibia popularly known as 2face,  has come out to defend his former protégée, Dammy Krane, that he has been accused of credit card fraud before. He took his time before coming out with this story so that it will not seem as he’s defending criminal a intent.

He came out to reveal that he has experienced same thing that happened to singer, Dammy Krane in the U.S. Following Dammy Krane’s recent acquittal from charges of credit card fraud in Miami, his former label boss, 2baba revealed he was caught up in a Credit Card fraud case, but he was fortunate the public had no knowledge of it because it was settled before it became public knowledge.
He said; “Yes, it happened to me once; there was this time I went for a show, I can’t really remember where, maybe Amsterdam or somewhere in Europe, my ticket was bought with a fraudulent credit card.

It almost caused problems for me but everything was cleared as soon as they realised I didn’t buy the tickets myself, so I was freed. It is something that could happen to anybody, you just have to be careful”.

Speaking further he said he knew Dammy Krane was innocent all along, having experienced the same himself.
“I knew Dammy Krane was going to be freed of the charges against him; but you know when something like this happens, you still have to go to court and clear yourself, and that’s what happened in his case.
It was just unfortunate that something like that happened. I would say he was at the right place but at the wrong time.

He was only going for a show and somehow one or two of the people travelling with him were not clean and it got every other person involved in the scandal. It could have happened to anybody”, he stressed.

Can An HIV Negative Woman And Her HIV Positive Partner Conceive Naturally?

There are many questions left un-answered regarding people living with HIV. Can they live normal lives? Can they bring forth healthy children to this world?
This section tries to put things in proper perspectives.

What are the chances of a woman contracting HIV from her HIV positive man?
An HIV negative woman and an HIV positive man (discordant couple) can marry and conceive naturally. There are certain measures which are very important to be considered to make an HIV negative woman to remain negative.
Statistically, it is much harder to transmit HIV than to get pregnant. You will have the highest risk of pregnancy by having unprotected sex one or two days before your ovulation starts; when the ovary releases the egg. This is a 20%-30% chance. The risk of contracting HIV during vaginal penetration, for a woman, is 1 per 1,250 exposures (or 0.08 percent); for the man in that scenario, it’s 1 per 2,500 exposures (0.04 percent, which is the same as performing MouthAction). So, a woman is about 300 times more likely to get pregnant than to contract HIV from an HIV positive man.
To make this safe, your partner must have an undetectable viral load for at least 6 months. The risk then become close to zero. This is the first important step that must take place and a very necessary criterion for marriage and conception to take place. The HIV positive man must have been on Anti-Retroviral Therapy (ART) consistently for over six months to have achieved an undetectable viral load. This is very important as low viral load is a direct indication that the virus is undetectable in body fluids which are semen, blood and vaginal secretions. Hence, the risk of transmission is almost zero.
Then the next step is limited conception attempts during the most fertile days of your cycle. i.e when you are ovulating. Sexual activities should be tailored towards the ovulation period of the woman. A low number of conception attempts has a very low risk if the HIV positive person has an undetectable viral load. It is also still recommended that couples use condoms when the woman is not ovulating, or has become pregnant.
Therefore, limited conception attempts made during ovulation may carry a low risk if your partner’s viral load is undetectable.
Sometimes PrEP [Pre exposure Prophylaxis] and PEP [Post Exposure Prophylaxis] are used as an additional precautions. This involves taking a single dose of treatment before and after having sex.
PrEP is not likely to add much or any protection, because having an undetectable viral load is enough. It might help for psychologically if you are nervous. PrEP is very effective too.
One study followed 91 HIV serodiscordant couples, 43 were positive in male partners and 48 were positive in female partners. There were 196 unprotected vaginal intercourses, 100 natural conception and 97 newborns. There were no cases of HIV seroconversion in uninfected sexual partners. Natural conception may be an acceptable option in HIV-serodiscordant couples in resource limited settings if HIV-positive individuals have undetectable viremia on HAART, combined with HIV counseling, PrEP, PEP and timed intercourse. [1]
The PARTNER study reported zero HIV transmissions after 800 couples had sex more than 58,000 times without a condom when the positive partner had an undetectable viral load. [2]
How often should she get tested and how long does it take for the infection to be detectable?
HIV antibody tests do not work as soon as you are infected. This is because it usually takes several weeks to generate antibodies to HIV. This is called the ‘window period’. Most people generate this response within 4–6 weeks, but approximately 5% of people take up to 3 months. Very rarely it can take longer.
The result of an antibody tests therefore only tells your your HIV status three months prior to the test. This is why people are advised to re-test three months after the exposure if you test at 4-6 weeks, or to wait three months before taking an HIV test.
Taking an antibody test less than 4 weeks after exposure will not tell you very much. You need to wait until at least 4–6 weeks after the exposure. [3]
Will the baby automatically be HIV positive?
As you are HIV negative, the baby will be HIV negative. If you are HIV positive and your viral load is undetectable, the chance your baby will be HIV positive is zero.
Will my baby be at risk?
Your baby can be at risk if you become HIV positive whilst pregnant and your viral load is very high. Returning to using condoms after you become pregnant might still be a good idea, even when your partners viral load is undetectable.
A high viral load is one of the main risk factors for transmission. If viral load is detectable, there is a higher risk of catching HIV during pregnancy.
Transmission to the baby can occur at 3 stages, but only if you become HIV positive.

During pregnancy
At the time of delivery

Through breast-feeding.

However, there are interventions to reduce the risk of transmission to the baby during pregnancy and birth. These include:
Taking treatment so that viral load is undetectable by the time of delivery

Giving the baby a course of treatment for the first 4 weeks of life.

Is it an ignorant choice?
This is not an ignorant choice. Far more sero-different couples have children naturally than from using sperm washing. Fortunately, treatment now dramatically reduces the risk of transmitting HIV if this process is done carefully.
However, it is important that both you and your partner make an informed choice. It is recommended that you discuss your options with your doctor.

Source Health Matters