Sex: what’s the one thing you’d NEVER do? Here, eight women tell us about the time they broke their ultimate sex taboo.
So what’s the one thing you’d never do when it comes to sex? Having an open relationship tops the list in one recent survey, closely followed by having sex with someone much older or younger than you. However, as we all know, what we say and what we do doesn’t always match up.
Some ladies opened up on some of the sex escapades:
“I SLEPT WITH MY BEST FRIEND’S HUSBAND”
“I often went clubbing with Ellie and her husband Justin. When Ellie didn’t want to come, Justin and I still went together. A couple of times Justin wanted to go for a weekend break in Scotland and, because Ellie didn’t fancy it, I went with him. She didn’t seem bothered. Once, when we were away, he just kissed me. Ellie heard rumours and asked what was going on- we denied it, but she found out the truth and they split. Justin and I were together for 18 months before we came clean to our other friends. I always said I’d never get involved with another girl’s man, especially a friend’s. I love Justin, but I regret losing the best friendship I ever had. I’ve been with Justin for four years and I still beat myself up about it. Unbelievably, Ellie’s still there for me when there’s a crisis. She’s one in a million.” Emily, 28
“I SLEPT WITH A MAN 10 YEARS OLDER THAN MY DAD”
“I never understood the attraction of older men, but that all changed one Saturday night when I met Tom in a pub. He was a friendly guy and he kept telling me I had lovely hair and was wearing a great dress. He told me he was 32, but he looked older. When I questioned him, he said, “Why would I be hanging around with lads in their twenties if I’m way older than them?” That made sense. When we all left he grabbed my hand and we started kissing. He asked me back to his and, without really thinking about it, I went. The next morning I woke up, looked at him and thought, ‘Oh. My. God!’ I found out later that he’s 52. That’s 32 years older than me and ten years older than my dad. I can’t believe I slept with someone who could technically be my grandfather.” Lianne, 20
“I SLEPT WITH MY BEST MATE”
“I’m up for most things, but I always said I’d never sleep with a friend. I was close to Jack for about a year and a half before anything happened, I’d give him advice about girl problems and he’d come out with me and my boyfriend. When he invited me to an after-hours party at his pub one night, I realised I had feelings for him, and blurted it out. Thankfully he felt the same. We were worried about ruining our friendship, but before I knew it we were having sex on table 15. We’ve been together three months now. Breaking my sex taboo was the best thing I ever did – if I hadn’t, I might’ve woken up at 55 with my old boyfriend, who didn’t make me nearly as happy. Taboos are meant to be broken if it means finding the person you’ve been searching for all your life.” Valerie, 25
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Credit Glamour Magazine